Many ladies now dislike cooking and home chores –
Because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to American media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way, our ladies are loosing their place in their husband’s heart. Kenyan family setting is unique and that is why previous African marriages last longer and envious to the whites.

With this attitude, how do you expect any man to desire to marry you who claim to be a modern lady when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

You Don’t Bring Value Into The Life Of The Man You Marry or Are Dating –
Your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to.

Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope… be a good wife, respectful, stay away from your mother or friends evil counsels, and above all be his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support.

Your Mother and Friends Run Your Life –
How do you expect your husband or the man you are dating to trust you when you still allow your mum and clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not?