Things Men Say when they Cheat

1. SHE’S JUST A FRIEND
You discover he’s been talking to someone new, who is a female. He hasn’t said anything to you about her before you finding out about her and when you ask him if you can meet her, he objects. It’s because she’s really not a friend, she’s a girlfriend.

2. RESPECT MY PRIVACY.
He doesn’t want you to touch his phone for fear that you will either see text messages from her or that she will send one just as you pick it up. He may even have pictures of her on his phone.

3. YOU ARE CHEATING ON ME, AREN’T YOU?
Yes, men who ch'eat will accuse their partner of ch'eating. Why? It’s because they start to think, “Well, if I can do it, she could do it too.”


4. YOU AREN’T GOOD ENOUGH...
All of sudden he pokes at all of the things you do wrong and you have no idea what his problem is. He can’t cheat if he lov3s you or he thinks that you are good to him. So he makes himself believe that you aren’t good enough for him and that’s why he had to turn to someone else. In reality, you are more than good enough.

5.I HAVE TO STAY AFTER TO CATCH UP ON WORK.
All of a sudden he has more work than he knows what to do with and he can’t come home when he normally does. It’s because he’s not really at work, instead he’s meeting with his girlfriend without worry that you’ll catch him.

6.I DIDN’T WANT TO HURT YOU.
He’s right, when he went out to have the aff@ir, he wasn’t thinking, “I am going to sle3p with this other woman because I want to hurt her so incredibly bad.” Instead, he did it for his own selfish reasons without giving any thought to how it would hurt you.